Consciously consuming clothing

To those who know me, they know I have a love for clothing, style and sewing. In my free time I enjoy thrifting, watching sewing youtubers, learning about recent and historical fashion trends, and going through piles of fabric, dreaming of what I could create.

There are so many ways now to create a style, and getting guidance on how. Find your color season using Pinterest. Get a Kibbe consultation. Read these seven paragraphs to determine your style essence. I love learning about all these ways of curating a “look” that is meant to be perfect for my specific appearance. But lately I’ve been thinking differently about clothing.

Today, trends change in a week. Some items, that are beautiful, unique or quirky, are only worn once by a person for fear of repeating an outfit. Investing in quality pieces may be the method of some, but for younger individuals, it is not the norm. For people who love style trends, they quickly go online and pick up the latest fashion piece, which they may be obsessed with for a while, but will likely be “over” or revamped by the next year. Clothing is treated as replaceable. Largely temporary. Especially in fast fashion.

Over the last few years, I’ve noticed how my relationship with clothes has changed. I’ve always been a lover of unique pieces, but whereas before I might go thrifting once a month and pick up a piece or two I’d keep for years, now I was buying thrifted and new clothes regularly, tracking store sales and buying items that were unique, but then wearing them infrequently until my next new shipment.

I know these habits directly correlate with the lifestyle I’ve adapted since the pandemic. I’ve been debating for a while how I can change these habits. My initial thought? Give up buying any new clothing for a year. Extreme? Yes. Realistic? For me… not yet.

Thus, I have challenged myself not to buy any new clothing for one whole month. Officially for me, the challenge began June 13. But then I thought of another component.

What if I limited what clothes I had access to also for a month? Say – to 30 items.

Essentially, a summer capsule wardrobe. This idea both thrilled and excited me. And after initial hesitation, last night I separated twenty-four items out of my closet and onto a bureau in my bedroom, limiting myself to them.

Now, some of you may have just read “twenty-four items” and be confused. There is a reason I only picked twenty-four out of thirty items from my wardrobe. I actually did not know what else I wanted to add. Thus I decided I’d give myself “wiggle room” with six additional pieces that I could add from my closet throughout the month if I needed a special item. For instance – I already know I will need a bathing suit at some point, but chose to wait until I leave on my beach trip to make my final selection.

Of course I have some exceptions. Clothing items for working out are not included, nor are pajamas. I also decided that anything I sew within the month can be added to the capsule wardrobe and not count towards my thirty piece total. Wearing a pre-sewn item to church is allowed, and I have unlimited access to accessories and shoes.

I made these exceptions for several reasons. The first being I sometimes get very dirty working out, especially if its on my family’s farm, and don’t have time to do laundry every day. Thus, if a clothing item is being worn just to exercise in, it does not count as a regular clothing item. I also have fallen off my sewing streak. In order to encourage myself to sew more, I am giving myself the ability to sew items for my wardrobe.

I must confess, I have already finished a sewing a pair of shorts this morning, so I do believe it is working.

The curious thing about this challenge? I’m already beginning to see how there is clothing I own that I’m not event interested in wearing. Hopefully by the end of this experiment I can not only downsize my closet further but also be more conscientious about my closet habits, sew more and be less dependent on the trend cycle.

A 24 by 24 by 24 Birthday Update

A golden sunset in Nassau, Bahamas.

Last year I made a bucket list to complete by my “golden birthday.” Twenty-four goals to accomplish before my 24th birthday on February 24, 2020 (hence 24 by 24 by 24).

I’ve always enjoyed setting goals for myself. By making a bucket list with my birthday serving as the deadline, it became a way for me to document the year and challenge myself. Some of the goals were surprisingly easy, while others made me realize how big of a procrastinator I can be. Below I have listed out each goal I accomplished, as well as a note about each one.

24 by 24 by 24

Here I am in the dress I sewed.
  1. Try a new restaurant each month
    • Successfully completed!
  2. Do a 100-day challenge
    • Walked 10,000 steps a day from May through August.
  3. Go to a festival (of some sort)
    • Attended the Maryland Sheep and Wool Festival.
  4. Sew an Outfit
    • I successful sewed a satin green dress.
  5. Find a new hobby  (join a club)
    • I have become active in a local organization that includes volunteering and working on agricultural projects.
  6. Have a Photo Shoot
    • Technically, I did do a photo shoot this past summer (although it was with my sister, and not with my wonderful friend Gillian (hi!)).
  7. Start and keep a gratitude journal (at least 2xs a week)
    • This goal was surprisingly one of the easiest to complete, and I think it has benefited remembering all the little things I have to be grateful for.
  8. Bake a dessert and gift some of it out
    • This was accomplished! I baked a batch of chocolate chip cookies and gifted some out to my friends and their families.
  9. Designate time each week for meditation
    • In my opinion, I did accomplish this goal. I created a habit this year of going hiking at least once a week by myself. I found that this time often proved to be a good time for self reflection and creativity.
  10. Go to a baseball football game (with friends!)
    • I ended up NOT attending a baseball game with my friends – however I did attend a football game! And for that reason I would like to consider this goal a success, even though it was not completed.
  11. Go hiking with a new friend
    • Completed!
  12. Write a collection of poems/short story
    • Wrote some poetry while fulfilling my writing retreat goal!
  13. Read 24 books
    • I read 23 of 24 books.
  14. Have a writing retreat with Laura and Abby
    • Participated in CampNano Wrimo 🙂
  15. Go to a new city by myself and spend a day there
    • I unintentionally accomplished this goal! I planned a trip to Hawaii with my friend who accidentally missed her flight! Thus I arrived in Hawaii eight hours ahead of her and took that time to walk around Waikiki.
  16. Give up soda for a month
    • Accomplished! After a week of not drinking any soda, I stopped missing it. While I do occasionally drink soda now, I certainly have cut back.
  17. Go to a concert
    • This is a goal I accomplished but I cannot remember for the life of me who I saw. Interestingly enough, I already have been invited to four concerts for this upcoming year! Although, I do not think I will make it to all of them.
  18. Take a class on something I’m interested in (surfing, painting, ext.)
    • This goal I initially thought I did not accomplish, until I remembered that for my job I have taken several courses this past year in topics I’m interested in. These included classes about drying herbs and niche agricultural markets.
  19. Run an under 10-minute mile
    • Surprisingly enough, this goals was actually not difficult to complete!
  20. Visit my friend Katie
    • This goal was one of the ones that I added as an alternative at my six-month check in. Excitingly, I was able to visit my friend Katie before she moved across the country.
  21. Clean out my room
    • This was another alternative goal. And while it originally was grouped with the goal to “donate clothes,” I separated them because of how much time they each took to do!
  22. Donate Clothes
    • My closet is able to breathe.

Looking at this list, I only accomplished 22 goals, rather then 24. A 91% success rate. I also did not achieve my overarching goal of completing all these items; however, I still consider the year an amazing success. It has been filled with both positive and negative surprises. I had more adventures then I could ever imagine, but also personal family matters I never could have anticipated. My 23rd year was remarkable, and it is only in retrospect I can appreciate everything I accomplished.

In front of the United States Capitol in Washington D.C.

Of the goals I listed for myself, I am most proud of having read 23 books. Although this is one shy of my goal(24 books), I am so happy to be in the habit of reading regularly. While I enjoyed many of the books I read, the one that stood out the most would be Code Name Verity by Elizabeth E. Wein.

However, here are the goals I did not complete before turning 24. Some I added throughout the year, which is why I have more than only two goals which I did not accomplish:

  • Make something extreme (think art)
    • I sadly did not make anything I would consider extreme.
  • Visit Nicole in NY State
    • However, I did see her when she returned to Maryland. I hope to see her eventually in New York!
  • Sing karaoke
    • I realized I love singing but not in front of people.
  • LOTR Extended Movie Marathon/visit Kamille in NYC!
    • This was not accomplished, however I still plan on seeing my friend hopefully soon!
  • Do a styling trip with Tevin
    • After talking with my friend Tevin, it became apparent that our work schedules made this very difficult to near impossible. We still want to meet up for this fun activity.

Of these goals, the ones I want to accomplish this year are making trips to visit my friends Kamille and Nicole. I rarely get to see them, and they live close enough I could always make a three-day trip out to them.

I am now debating if I should create another list for my next birthday – a 25 by 25. While it is not nearly as catchy of a title, I think there is definitely potential. Any ideas, suggestions or advice is welcome for my next year of goals. 🙂

Mountains on Maui.

Welcome to the 20’s: Bucket list

I am addicted to bucket lists. I love setting myself challenges, and checking off each one as I accomplish them. I may or may not even have one I’m still currently working on. However, for me this is no reason to not create another.

While I do like to set timelines for my bucket lists, I also recognize that often they can carry over past my “deadline.” In 2019, I had 20 goals, of which I accomplished 15. Which, is not bad. For 2020 though, I would like to do better, and have higher than a 75% success rate.

A new dawn, a new day, a new year. Welcome 2020!

Types of goals that can be included in bucket list can be personal, financial, emotional, health-related or just for fun! Often I create a mix of goals. There are some that require multiple steps to accomplish and planning, and others that I only aim to do once. I have provided a list of some goal types and examples below.

  • Personal goals: find a new hobby, clean out room/house, donate clothes, volunteer more, ext.
  • Financial goals: create a budget, limit spending, save a certain amount of money each paycheck, create a 401k, pay off loans or debt, ext.
  • Emotional goals: start a gratitude journal, have a designated time each week for self care, check in with friends an loved ones consistently, ext.
  • Health-related goals: exercise three times a week, eat healthier, get eight hours of sleep, ext.
  • Just for Fun goals: eat at a new restaurant each month, create an art piece to hang in your home, go on a hike, travel more, ext.

So without any further ado, here are my goals for 2020.

2020 Goals

  1. Read 20 Books. Because it’s 2020.
  2. Create a blog post at least once a month. Last year I was surprised by how consistently I posted for the first several months, before gradually becoming less and less involved. However, when my computer broke, I was grateful to have blogged several of my goals and experiences, thus letting me have a record of them.
  3. Sew an outfit.
  4. Go on a solo trip for fun. I’ve been wanting to try this for several years now!
  5. Exercise two to three times a week. Create a routine!
  6. Double my savings.
  7. Go on a road trip and visit friends along the way!
  8. Spend less time on my phone! This is one of the goals I failed in 2019.
  9. Find a side hustle/part time job.
  10. Write *creatively* on a regular basis. From third grade all the way through high school, everyday after school I used to spend hours just writing. I want to find joy in creating places and characters again.
  11. Try a capsule wardrobe for at least a week – challenge myself!
  12. Volunteer at least once a month.
  13. Spend a weekend solely on reflection and planning.
  14. Run 100 miles this year – this means running about two miles each week.
  15. Move in to a new living space.
  16. Visit a foreign country (I have two or three options in mind already).
  17. Get a haircut. I know this one is fairly simple compared to most of the others, but it needs to be done.
  18. Give up fast food for a month.
  19. Create a morning routine to do before work, could include reading, meditation, ext.
  20. Go to a chiropractor/attend physical therapy.

Likely later in the year I will think of “bonus” bucket list items I can include or switch out, depending on how I want to challenge myself and interests. Regardless, cheers to 2020!

Me and my cat Domino, ready for 2020!

A six month countdown

Earlier this year I created a bucket list of 24 items to complete before I turned 24 on the 24th of February… in other words, my 24 by 24 by 24 bucket list. This past month was the halfway point from when I set these goals, and it seems only appropriate to give an update.

Volunteering selling ice cream at the Maryland State Fair!

As the year has progressed, some things have changed – some goals have been edited, and alternatives or “bonuses” have been added. Most of these alternative/bonus goals were ones I had considered putting on the list when I was created it, but then initially decided they did not cut the top 24.

While I do have conflicting thoughts on changing goals, I think at the end of the day having alternatives is more realistic for me, especially when considering all the unknown factors that can impact a year. Instead of feeling guilty for changing a goal, I can recognize the fact that the ways I want to push myself evolve as the year progresses, letting me explore new opportunities and challenges.

Below is a list of my goals – along with an update by each one

24 by 24 by 24

  1. Try a new restaurant each month
    • On track to completion!
  2. Do a 100-day challenge
    • Walked 10,000 steps a day from May through August.
  3. Go to a festival (of some sort)
    • Attended the Maryland Sheep and Wool Festival.
  4. Sew an Outfit
    • Had to adjust this goal – the contest I initially wanted to enter in is on the same day as a wedding. Instead I have decided to sew a dress for the wedding as my new goal!
  5. Find a new hobby  (join a club)
    • Recently I have become active in a local organization to my county- so this goal is on its way to completion!
  6. Make something extreme (think art)
    • I’ve been brainstorming – but I’m open to ideas!
  7. Have a Photo Shoot
    • Technically, I did do a photo shoot this past summer (although it was with my sister, and not with my wonderful friend Gillian (hi!)). However, this is a goal that I’ve been reevaluating. Lately I’ve been more interested in taking photos, and think my new goal may be to go out and experiment taking more of nature.
  8. LOTR Extended Movie Marathon/visit Kamille in NYC!
  9. Start and keep a gratitude journal (at least 2xs a week)
    • I am happy to say that this is one of my goals I have been consistent on! It has helped me remember all the good things in life.
  10. Bake a dessert and gift some of it out
    • Hopefully will be completed soon.
  11. Designate time each week for meditation
    • This goal is in progress. While I have been conscientious about taking care of myself, I still have not solidified a meditation routine.
  12. Go to a baseball game (with friends!)
    • I honestly to not know if this one will happen before the baseball season ends, in which case it may be one of the goals I end up editing/switching with an alternative!
  13. Do a styling trip with Tevin
    • Another goal I need to organize a meet-up for!
  14. Go hiking with a new friend
    • Completed!
  15. Write a collection of poems/short story
    • Wrote some poetry while fulfilling my writing retreat goal!
  16. Read 24 books
    • Thus far, I have read 11 books and am simultaneously working on numbers 12 and 13. Hoping to finish one soon!
  17. Have a writing retreat with Laura and Abby
    • Participated in CampNano Wrimo 🙂
  18. Go to a new city by myself and spend a day there
    • I’ve been to several new cities this year, so this goal could be considered completed, but I plan to continue to push myself!
  19. Give up soda for a month
    • I am currently working on this goal!
  20. Visit Nicole in NY State
  21. Go to a concert
    • I could argue I’ve been to one already this year, but I’m holding out to see if I go to more!
  22. Sing karaoke
    • The more I think about this goal, the less enthusiastic I feel about it, haha.
  23. Take a class on something I’m interested in (surfing, painting, ext.)
    • This goal I’ve done a lot of research on. All that is left is to sign up for a class and complete it!
  24. Run an under 10-minute mile
    • Surprisingly enough, this goals was actually not difficult to complete!
A picture I took while hiking along the coast of France in April, 2019.

The new “alternative” or “bonus” goals I have allowed myself to include are:

  • Try 24 new Recipes
  • Getting another piercing
  • Cleaning out my room/Donating clothes
  • Visiting my friend Katie

From my original list, I have completed 12 goals – so thankfully it looks like I am on track to complete them on time! However, this count includes my on-going goals – meaning I still have a number of goals that occur once I need to complete!

Believe you can and you’re halfway there.

Theodore Roosevelt

So far this year has had some great times as well as unforeseen challenges. Moving forward I am excited to continue experiencing all of these, and regardless of what life throws at me I will continue pursuing these challenges.

Envisioning the Future: I’m avoiding it

I am very lucky to have two younger sisters, both of whom love me dearly and are willing to call me out on my crap. I am a procrastinator, and repeatedly will make excuses as for why I have not done, or started doing, something. In other words, anything.

Enjoying Villefranche-sur-Mer in France. Travelling was a goal of mine this past year, but now it feels like I’ve hit a slump.

I will admit – my excuses normally are sensible and sound like legitimate reasons, but they are just diversions I make for myself to put off actually working on and achieving my goals. My youngest sister last night was very kind to remind me that every time I start talking about what I want to do, I always bring up why I have not started yet.

She asks me the tough questions – like why haven’t you started?

Why is that stopping you?

Is that really what’s stopping you?

What do you want to do Sarah?

And I think that is the hard thing. Because I know what I am doing now is not what I want to be doing the rest of my life. But at the same time the answer to what I want to do is not evident to me yet. I will admit I have ideas about what I want, but I feel like my answers are always shifting.

In some ways, I know I am not alone in having these questions. Many of my friends are also at this stage in life where they have finished their education and now need to figure out what they are going to do – get more of an education, find a job, pick a career path?

My sister told me I should write down my goal – my big broad minded career goal – and then write it in detail. And then write each step as to what I need to do to reach it. Or at least aim close enough to it. Sometimes I think she knows me better then myself (other times not at all, but that was not the case). And I did partially do this already, in my post about Envisioning the Future: Creating my Life Goals, but people are always changing. And while I still want to achieve those goals, none of them directly address the challenge she has given me.

So I promised her I would work on it. (And yes, I have started, but I feel like I need to take some time to reflect on what I am thinking). Lately I’ve been very aware of how I focus so much on what my big goals are I can’t decipher or enjoy the little ones. So I think I will work on that first, to help me achieve my bigger goals – and decrease my stress about the little ones.